| Location | Barnsley |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 05/11/1963 |
| Date of Death | 18/01/2001 |
| Visitors | 1,727 since 24/10/2008 |
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Julie Dawn Pape was the 2nd eldest of six girls born to Trevor and Beryl Coles.She was a clever intelligent girl and excelled in all subjects at School. She went on to marry Martin Pape and had two wonderful children, Natalie and matthew.She was the most patient and wonderful mum i knew, she worked hard as an acountant for Barnsley Council. In sept 2000 she became tired and forgetful and the doctors diagnosed her with stress and advised her to take time from work, she did but seemed to be forgetting things and had headache a lot. The doctors then advised her to stay off work as she was suffering from depression. I went to see her on her birthday nov 2000 and took her a basket of flowers, my sister looked so tired but not depressed,i was confused but trusted the doctors and aired my worries to my other 4 sister's and Mum. Christmas passed and Julie seemed to be getting better, gaining the weight she'd lost and coping with the headache's. Then on the 14th of jan i got a call from my eldest sister Diane, she was upset as Julie had been to visit with Birthday cards for her daughter Stacey. she said Julie was confused and disorientated and something was seriously wrong,Diane knew i would go and talk to her and see for myself. I went to my sister's on the 16th of Jan and when she opened the door my heart dropped to my stomach, my sister looked so frail and ill, i was distraught. I asked her to tell me about all the tablets she was taking and what the doctors had said. She tried to make a cup of tea for us but it took her so long i went in to help and i broke down on my sister's shoulder and begged her to go back to the doctors. I knew she was seriously ill but just couldn't put my finger on what it was. She told me about the ' flashing lights' the headache's ,the vomiting. I told her i loved her and i was so worried, she patted me on the back and asssured me she was fine, deep down i knew! She agreed to call the doctors and go back and demand tests, this was the thursday of that week,but weds nite she went to bed and slipped into a coma. Getting that call on thurs morning from my mum telling me my wonderful, amazing sister was in Intensive Care fighting for her life was the worse day of my life.We all went up to the hospital where they eventually told us she was in a coma and they had x rayed her and found a brain tumour.
To give her any chance of survival they were gonna have to ' blue light' her to The Hallampshire to be operated on immediatley. On arrival the gave her a cat scan and called my mum to tell her the bad news, Julie was already Brain dead, it was too late. We all went to say our goodbye's and then they switched the Life Support machines off. I asked about organ donation as Julie wanted this , she advised me to register as a donor when i was 17 and explained how important it was. The irony was her organs couldn't be used as she had cancer!! It's now almost 8 years since Julie passed away and there isn't a day goes by that i don't think about her and cry, i miss her so much. I will never be the same person again and i just hope and pray i can one day make her proud of me.
Today.
11 years have passed and i think about you every day...i miss you so much and can't wait till we meet again..up there...!! Hope the Angels are looking after you and God realises he took the best ....love you Sis xxx
FOR MY SISTER JULIE
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Love from Diane xxx
my big sis
If roses grow in heaven,
Lord Please pick one for me.
Place it in my Loved ones hand
And tell them it's from me.
Tell them that I love them
And when they turn to smile,
Place a kiss upon their cheek
And hold them for a while.
Remembering them is easy,
I do it every day.
But there's an ache within my heart
That will never go away.
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LOVE YOU XXX
happy birthday julie, xx
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YEAR AFTER YEAR
Out of the darkness,
And into the light.
Your presence to me
Made everything right.
I never imagined
In a million years,
That I would be sitting here
Wailing with tears.
The day you left
You didn’t say goodbye.
It’s little things like that
That tend to make me cry.
Just want to feel the same
As when you were here
But I just miss you more,
Year after year.
love bez and kids, xx
my beautiful sister
✫...18th January 2011...✫
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✫………Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ A
✫…………..Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ N
✫……………….Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ G
✫………….………..Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ E
✫.……………….………..Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ L
✫………………….…………Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~D
✫……………………….………Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ A
✫………………………….………Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ~ Y
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mising you so much ! xx
Sister
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║╔╗║╔╗║╔╣╔╩╗╔╝ ★ NEW YEAR ☆ 2011
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Love from Diane and family xxx
For my Sister Julie
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JULIE
Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Julie
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JULIE
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LOTS OF LOVE FROM LOVING SISTER DIANE AND FAMILY XXX
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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ღ HAPPY BIRTHDAY JULIE.♥
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♫ ♪ нαρρу вιятн∂αу тσ уσυ...♪♫
love sent to you! x
....Quietly i whisper
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Quietly i whisper
Your name everynight
Hoping like ive never hoped
You visit me tonight
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Every, minute i think of you
Youre all thats on my mind
Living life without you
A broken heart you left behind
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Memories still linger
So deep inside of me
Searching in the blue skies
For my Angel flying free
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Wishing on a shooting star
Spangled skies above
I need your arms around me
I miss your tender love
Mothers Day Wishes
To an amazing Mother, wish u were here opening yr cards and presents. The kids would have spoiled u ....Knowing that yr a Nannan now and that Natalie will tell her little girl all about her amazin Nan that is now in Heaven x x Miss U loads x x
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